Work, work, work. In my not-so-long life, I wanted to make a career. Not for any price, and definitely not to become rich, but to be wealthy. To at least save me financial worries. Back then, I didn't know what other worries you have to carry around as an adult. First of all, I love my job, and I'm so glad that my parents realized relatively quickly that none of their four children fulfilled their dream, to become a lawyer, an engineer, or a doctor. The train left, and I think my mother is grateful that we are all alive and can finance this ourselves, after she overcame the disappointment and my sister gave her at least one granddaughter. What she will learn about me at the latest, however, is that I have very high ambitions to get to the top. Sorry, Mom, that's too exhausting for me. The world urgently needs more women in leadership positions, but I won't be one of them. You have to want it, and I definitely don't want it. For this, I take full admiration of the hat, especially of the people who want to make a career, and then do it well, if they have succeeded. Because many want to be chiefs, but the fewest can do it. But that's not what this is about. In any case, I don't judge people who want to make a career, especially not women who want to go astronomically high. On the contrary. I stand by the sidelines, wave flags, shout, you go girl, and support them as far as I can. And when they have children, I scream even louder. I don't want to discriminate against childless women, but simply remind the mothers that there is absolutely nothing in it to bring careers and kids under a hat. It's just exhausting. Partly also because it is also made exhausting. After all, we live in a society in which you can't do anything right as a woman anyway. If you are a housewife, that's stupid. If you make a career as a woman and should earn your own money. If you are a career woman, that's stupid. If you have children, and in the best case you should wipe their asses, until they finally move out of the house. It is best to do all these things even without visibly aging. But always in a good mood, slim, satisfied, and does not criticize this misogynistic system in our society. Knowing that this delusional attitude is so established, even many women support this difficult way of thinking. What a ***show. Only recently I was once again involved in a conversation in which other mothers were chauffeured over a woman, who shortly after the birth of her first son has set up a kind of nanny to be able to go to work part-time again. Sentences like, that's already a good start. What do you get a child for if you don't want to take care of it? And many other stupidities are the cases. And it certainly took a minute or two until I lifted my chin from the floor to point out to this mormon scheme that it is terrible to judge a woman that she does not put her career on the line because she has a child. Maybe I should also mention here that the alleged mother had her office at home, almost 5G seconds away from her son. In any case, she then told me, you don't even have children yourself, you don't understand that. By the way, she hasn't stopped telling me for a long time that they behave badly. Especially not if they can't think of a better argument to distract themselves from their terrible behavior. You don't have to be a mother to know about the bad conscience that torments you when you go to work despite having children. Not to mention a working world that is anything but friendly to caring parents and the pressure that comes with this unimaginable double burden. In this case, you need a lot, but certainly not judging voices that make life even harder for you. If you want to stay at home with the children and find absolute fulfillment in it, you should be happy to do so. If you want to get back to work as soon as possible, you should do that. But judging others for their decisions is *** and smells a bit like jealousy and insecurity, if you ask me. This career ladder is so steep for us women that we are practically dependent on each other's support. To put other people in the way is not only mean, but also very counterproductive. Men do that anyway. We don't need to *** them by the arm. I don't want to pretend. In the past, I also didn't understand why you don't go to work as a woman and rather stay at home with the children for as long as possible. After all, it took a long time until we got halfway through and now we don't seize the opportunity? It didn't make sense to me until the women around me had children and I saw how every single one answered the question of the career differently for themselves, but everyone was judged. Not every woman wants or has to have a career. Some are simply satisfied with what they have and do. That is to be accepted, even if you would never handle it yourself. Being a mother is an unpaid full-time job without pension support. He has been ridiculed since then, even though it is physical and mental bone work and often due to lack of sleep. To understand and support all these things is just as feminist for me as to hold career women to account, if they want to go far. In a world in which gays are almost romanticized, it is a very unexpected, but certainly important act of female empowerment and we just can't get enough of it.